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Kimberly, "The Bombing Babe"

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Yes, I am back to venting here.. [Nov. 4th, 2011|09:34 pm]
Kimberly, "The Bombing Babe"
Just found out someone I know is pregnant, this is only their early 20's, this someone was engaged, is unmarried and was on the outs with her fiance when she discovered she was pregnant, I don't believe she has a job, the daddy to be is a former drug addict..yeah, this is going to go well...I just get so pissed off I cannot help it, and makes me more judgmental of ANY mother. Like if they are getting the job over me they better damn well prove their deserve and do the best they can, not screw it up too much and no whining or bitching about how tough being a mother is..Of course I have to sit back and pretend I'm happy for this person, as they are a family member of a good friend, but again, internally I'm seething...why is the people who seem like they need a child for the purpose of changing or growing up have them over people who would naturally already make good parents??? Power to Marcia and CTS is ALL I have to say...rich people in their 40's THAT's who should be having kids, they seem to make the best parents IMO...most 20 somethings are just too young and too poor and haven't developed a career enough yet...and then they regret giving up part of their still youth to their children, Meanhwhile, parents in their 40s can bring wisdom and appreciation to parenthood, are calmer, more patient, and they've lived their life enough and don't feel like they are sacrificing by now dedicating their time to their children...I don't want be a hateful and jealous person and I've been told thinking I'd be a better mother than someone else is just not the point, but it IS to me...I mean God, an unemployed early 20 something who is in an unstable relationship-REALLY????